THE BEST IS YET TO COME!
Initial Problem from Client.
I want a divorce, I can’t take it anymore!
Intervention from myself looking for clarity to help the client.
I’m sorry would you like to start with, getting a divorce, or, what it is you can’t take anymore?
The Work
Gaining trust and a rapport in order to offer a challenge to the client, to help her find out specifically what her situation was. This helped her to discover what it was she truly wanted, even though this was challenging to even think it at the initial consultation.
Built up clients Self-Awareness
Built up clients confidence
Built up clients self-esteem
Worked out what is was what she wanted from life in the following areas chosen by the client - Career, social, health & fitness, marriage and spirituality.
The Result
Client is now in charge of Accounts for her husband’s business (she loved being an accountant before her children came along and became a full-time Mum).
Client and her husband work only 4 days per week so they have 3 days off together and /or with their new friends, quite often doing lots of walking and camping in the lake-district.
Her marriage went from strength to strength. The client found what was missing in her marriage…………………..herself. When the client worked with me, in and outside our sessions, she embraced learning about who she is and what she wanted.
This was not an overnight process but was done with the client giving full commitment to the process, trusting myself to support her when she had doubts, as with any awareness of self, it can be scary as this could lead to having to change and move out of a comfort zone. This lady from our initial contact was willing to put the work in. I choose only, to work with clients that are prepared to put the required work in and do what ever it takes to find a way forward in changing their lives for the better.
I received only a few months after working with the above client, an invite as a VIP guest, to the clients renewal of, her & her husband's wedding ceremony Vows, in Florida!!!!!
Conclusion
By breaking down deliberately, the statement/believe, a client first announces, the client became aware, from her subconscious mind, brought on from direct pacific, intentional and challenging questions asked by myself that the real reason why she needed my help was to rediscover who she is when not being a Mum.
When this awareness became the clients real truth, even though it was difficult for the client to accept, we could then move forward with the understanding of what actions were needed to help the client reach her goal of finding herself first, then as a wife.
This lady was amazing to work with, she worked seriously hard, cried and laughed hard, sometimes even wanted to give-up.
However, with my support and her focus for the future, she landed in an emotional place. That place is happiness and love for herself, extremely grateful and proud of her children and last but not least, in-love with her husband.
I received a card from this client, after the wedding vows ceremony, her and her husband have bought a holiday home in Florida so they can spend even more quality time together!!!!! This lady, has she often put it, was coached and reborn.
